what does it mean to be independent? Is it the ability to do things on your own. Does not need help from others? As I grow older I find it more and more difficult to be independent. I surely cannot go to work, earn money and at the same time stay home and take care of my son. I still need help from others to take care of my son. Does this mean I'm less independent? And at work, it's impossible for me to work in silo. I have to ask peole for help to get a certain job done. I think if I truly want to be an independent person I should be a very succesful painter. I don't have to leave home. My work does not depend on others. And I can paint when my son at school or taking his nap. Yeah, not everyone can be a painter. Let alone a successful one. Good luck to me :)